February 14, 2009

Happy Valentine’s Day and aphrodisiacs

By vicerex

This is the most romantic day of the year! Lovers get together to celebrate their love for each other.  This is the day to GET BUSY with the one you love. This post is a quickie, but I wanted to highlight a neat photoessay I saw today on the Fox News Site. It is entitled Risky Aphrodisiacs. It is all about noted (but dangerous) love potions from around the world. Be careful with these!

Here is one of the images… a Blowfish. And here is the direct link to to Photo Essay

 

The blowfish is a dangerous aphrodisiac.

The blowfish is a dangerous aphrodisiac.

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February 13, 2009

Super sex potions!

By vicerex

Ok, this really surprised even me. I think I found the most potent supplement containing Tongkat Ali! My wife and I just had the most fantastic sex in many a moon. And let me say that this sex was for an entire weekend! Unbelievable! Like when we were first together!  We were orgasmically synchronized! We were like that for many years when we were first together, but now that we have been together for almost 11 years now, we thought those days were over! 

I started this blog on a quest to learn about all of the best possible sexual potions on the market right now. I have tried all kinds before, but I had not tried this particular item before. So what is the product? It is VICEREX. And let me tell you that its form of Tongkat Ali has to be the best on the market for sexual enhancers! The sex was so good I thought I was going to pass out after each orgasm! And I took my wife to a triple orgasm for the first time in probably 5 years! I think it might be the Tongkat Ali or possibly one of the other herbs or perhaps it is the combination of all of them in this sex potion called Vicerex.  I will be talking about this much more over the next few weeks to describe my experience with this! But for now… let me just say that my wifey is sore from the fun!

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February 11, 2009

Solo Sex proves healthful?!

By vicerex

I always thought I was supposed to go blind!!! And weren’t girls supposed to be either possessed by the devil or simply descend into hysteria by going SOLO!  Ok, now if I can just remember which key I am typing using my  braile keyboard, I think I’ll just be able to finish this post! ;-P  

The National Health and Social Life Survey for 2007 confirmed that 48-95 percent of people masturbate.

In this report, they showed that men who went masturbated had less stress and went on point out that it likely improves their immune system and possible their prostate gland! Go guys! Now, if I could just find the publish button on the screen… darn braile reader…

Debbie Hartridge, education director of the Six Rivers Planned Parenthood program said,

Masturbation helps build a woman’s resistance to yeast infections, combats pre-menstrual tension, relieves painful menstruation by increasing blood flow to the pelvic region, and can possibly relieve chronic back pain and increasing her threshold for pain.

Ok, folks, can anybody find my car keys? I need to drive home, oh wait… will somebody please help me find the publish button! Come on people, come in here and help a blind man publish his sexual health blog!!!

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February 10, 2009

More sex!

By vicerex

More and more people are having more sex recently despite the recession apparently. A poll from Consumers’ Reports was taken recently and it clearly showed that people couldn’t care about the economy when it comes to their sex life. There were 1000 people surveyed in the telephone poll (taken in Jan. 2009). 

79% of the people polled in the telephone sex study stated that the recession had not affected their sexual activity at all. And, in fact, 5% actually said they are having sex more often. Maybe everyone is trying to just stay warm during the cold winter?! This is certainly not the beginning of another baby boom or anything, but it is good to know that Americans are maintaining a healthy sexual appetite in spite of it.

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February 8, 2009

What Do Women Want?

By vicerex

Daniel Bergner of the NY Times wrote a brilliant piece on what exactly women want. Let me share some of the sexual health goodness here:

To account partly for the recent flourishing of research like Chivers’s, Heiman pointed to the arrival of Viagra in the late ’90s. Though aimed at men, the drug, which transformed the treatment of impotence, has dispersed a kind of collateral electric current into the area of women’s sexuality, not only generating an effort — mostly futile so far — to find drugs that can foster female desire as reliably as Viagra and its chemical relatives have facilitated erections, but also helping, indirectly, to inspire the search for a full understanding of women’s lust. This search may reflect, as well, a cultural and scientific trend, a stress on the deterministic role of biology, on nature’s dominance over nurture — and, because of this, on innate differences between the sexes, particularly in the primal domain of sex. “Masters and Johnson saw men and women as extremely similar,” Heiman said. “Now it’s research on differences that gets funded, that gets published, that the public is interested in.” She wondered aloud whether the trend will eventually run its course and reverse itself, but these days it may be among the factors that infuse sexology’s interest in the giant forest.

This research clearly shows that women are malleable towards sexual orientation… and men are hardly malleable at all. This is truly an amazing study and one that should perhaps open up new avenues of discussion towards sex, desires, lust and eventually love. Does this perhaps explain all of the celebrity actresses that keep switching teams?!

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February 7, 2009

More on Sexual health

By vicerex

Ok, so there is a new President, and he is a democrat and WOW I am stunned (NOT!) that he over-turned a policy from the W. Bush administration on funding sexual health clinics that offer abortions in foreign lands. This is par for the course when opposing political parties take over. Ok, but my problem here is that this is not really regarding SEXUAL HEALTH I think. AND the fact that this is more of our tax monies going overseas… but that is for another time! My issue with this is that sex is not treated as a natural and teachable topic with people as they grow up. I mean come on, doesn’t everybody have the Discovery Channel? Animals having sex is like on every other night!

People have sex. Teens have sex. Teens and people can have psychological problems regarding sex. More education is required on many levels for people to understand the nature of sex. Didn’t we literally use to get taught the “BIRDS AND THE BEES?” People are getting so much further disconnected from nature that they don’t even realize that humans are a part of the animal kingdom any more! WOW am I getting off topic, but anyways… sexual health is important for people to understand to be better people. What I’d love to see in the future is the use of technology (perhaps me blogging on various sexual topics on the internet can help mankind!) to better understand the nature of sex and its consequences.

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February 6, 2009

New Cream May Prevent Herpes

By vicerex

OK, this is pretty interesting. It is from a few weeks ago, but this is something good to know about. Looks like researchers have come up with a cream to prevent Genital Herpes (at least in mice for now!). They used it on some mice and it looks like it worked! This is good news as Herpes is the #1 sexual transmitted disease in the US right now.

Harvard researcher, Judy Lieberman Ph. D, said in a news release, “One of the attractive features of the compound we developed is that it creates in the tissue a state that’s resistant to infection, even if applied up to a week before sexual exposure. This aspect has a real practicality to it. If we can reproduce these results in people, this could have a powerful impact on preventing transmission.”

I have never had herpes, but I knew some guys that had it back in college and all I can say is WOW it was not a nice thing to have to deal with. Here are some signs to concern yourself if you contract Herpes.  They usually appear as one or more blisters on or around the rectum or genitals. The blisters eventually break which leave tender ulcers (sores) that may take two to four weeks to heal the first time the breakout occurs. 

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February 5, 2009

Holly Madison no longer working at Playboy

By vicerex

A sad day in sexual entertainment news came about today folks. Hugh Hefner’s number one girl has officially left the building, so to speak. Yes, Holly Madison, the first ever named Playmate Editor, has officially left her “job” at Playboy. Not sure what exactly that job is, but I would love to find out what it was… ummm Playmate Editor… so I guess she was the official Photoshop airbrush girl? Or she helped the Playmates to take their clothes off? Or maybe she officially held their clothes during the photo shoot? Oh wait, she probably helped the girls to get into all of those awkward poses that they are always in… I mean she HAD experience so maybe she knew exactly how to do it AND could teach it… sooo my question is… have they hired anybody for this job yet? Maybe they’d pay me less for on the job training?! Ummm… where can I sign up? :-D

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February 4, 2009

Mamor Tomcat Alley Aphrodisiac Chocolates

By vicerex

Ok, here is somebody with a really bright idea. Mamor chocolates from New Zealand is coming out with the perfect Valentine’s Day Gift! It is a chocolate candy mixed with Eurycoma Longifolia also known as Tongkat Ali, which is a noted aphrodisiac I have been studying over the last few years. It increases testosterone levels massively  thereby increasing sexual drive! This is the first chocolate candy I have ever heard of with a sexual twist! I can see this product working really well as chocolate is also a noted aphrodisiac!

I am going to be looking for even more products with international herbal extracts known for increasing sexual drive. As I learn about more of these types of products, I will be sure to review them and let them know what we think! We just ordered out first box of these and will have a review in the coming weeks!

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February 3, 2009

Conversation before sex

By vicerex

Hmmm. this seems like an odd thing to talk about but I really feel that sex is the most intimate thing we do with someone and having a conversation before can make it even more exciting. This talk enhances creativity and lets the other know exactly what you want and don’t want. This seems like such an obvious thing to do but I haven’t really heard or read about anybody discussing this. If no conversation occurs at all, then you’ll just be guessing. You’ll never know what pleases him or her. This is not (just) talking about feelings but also opens you up completely to the other person. This might even tell you why you SHOULDN’T be with this other person! OR it may reinforce WHY you love this person!

So what things should you talk about? This can’t be answered. It can only be answered by the other person. The thing you should be doing is asking questions. Remember that we all have 2 ears and 1 mouth, so listen TWICE as much as you talk and you might just learn something! It can be as basic as, “Do you like it when I touch you there?”, “Do you want me to move faster or slower?” “Do you like it when I…?” All these and more can really awaken you and your partner up to a healthy sexual relationship and bring some fun back into your bedroom!

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February 2, 2009

Sex Myths

By vicerex

Here are some common myths people still have about sex. GET INFORMED!

1. Withdrawing is a great form of birth control

Withdrawing before ejaculation is how this is performed. Hey guess what?! It does not work! Semen “leaks” out of the penis during sex not just at ejaculation… DOH! This means your little guys are at the ready and can and WILL go searching for the egg! Use a condom! Find a good one that fits right and feels good for you and your partner! If it breaks, THEN you may get breakdown, but they rarely break…

2. You won’t Get Pregnant if she isn’t Ovulating

She’s not ovulating so she can’t get pregnant — yeah… good luck on that one!! Yes, getting pregnant is likeliest to occur during the six or so days leading up to ovulation, a female can get pregnant at any point!  So don’t think this is the time to go crazy! 

3. Sildenafil is 100% Effective

When it comes to taking sildenafil medications (VIAGRA!), which treat erectile dysfunction, men tend to think that it’s 100 percent effective. Hey your doctor is always right! Right? All you need to do is pop a pill, sit back and enjoy (or whichever other position you two enjoy! :-D ), right? Probably the biggest problem relating to this is the desire aspect. If you have no sexual DESIRE for your partner… well then good luck! These medications aren’t Jack’s magic beans after all! 

4. Going down?

Folks engage in oral sex because they think it does not put them at risk for anything! They won’t get pregnant and everybody gets happy, right?! Ah ha, but you have forgotten about sexually transmitted diseases! Unprotected oral sex puts both partners — whether giver or receiver — at risk for a number of STDs. Herpes, the Clap, etc. is nasty folks. Be wise as to who you are with!

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February 1, 2009

Spicing up your Sex Life

By vicerex

1. Get back in the saddle!

Just go for it! Having more sex more often is its own reinforcement. A healthy sex life is important when you are in a relationship.

2. Communication

Talking to your spouse is probably the easiest thing to do. Asking about those “dreaded” feelings will typically open up your spouse. Hey remember to try a compliment now or then! And as I have said elsewhere, FLIRT!

3. Turn the computers, cellphones, etc. OFF!

Do you even turn OFF your computer any more?! I know that I barely do and I make a concerted effort to NOT check it constantly to look stuff up! One trick I use is to get organized and take good notes. This allows me to get off the computer and re-connect with my wife!

4. A CHORE or two

This is for men only! But if you don’t want your wife so tired or busy all of the time taking care of you or your children, hire a damned maid service or get off your lazy ass and get some stuff done around the house! If you can’t do that, your sexual life WILL suffer!

5. The Budoir

Go with your wife shopping and realize that you are going to re-outfit your bedroom! Getting new sheets, pillows, comforters, small picture frames, etc. will bring a new vibe into the your bedroom and increase your togetherness time!

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January 31, 2009

Aphrodisiacs and your mental state

By vicerex

How and what you think will determine how well an aphrodisiac of any kind will actually work. It is important to be in a positive state of mind during this as well to achieve the best possible effects. However there is another very important element to this game. And THAT is to make sure your significant other is AWARE of your sexual mood, and the best way to let them know is to actually FLIRT. This allows both of you to be aware of the game at hand and will let the other know instead of GUESSING! The deliberate and positive communication about sex with your partner will let you both really get into the mood. 

Guys, we can be pretty oblivious when it comes down to flirting, so we need to take an extra step here and not be a brute. Women love to be wooed, and this flirting can come down to a look, or a caress. But be sure to make sure your woman is the center of your attention. Sitting around watching a football game is NOT the best way to get her aroused. Overall what it all comes down to with flirting is to communicate and be completely open with your lover and one of the best ways to do that is to remember to really SMILE at her with your eyes.

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January 30, 2009

STIFF Drink Means Better Sex?

By vicerex

Hmmm. quite a provocative title! A rather HARD one to figure out?! :-D (I promise to keep the Austin Powers innuendo to only ONCE per post!) Ok, so this is actually based on a serious medical study from Down Under. Yup, the Aussies will say anything to get some attention it seems especially when it comes down to a sex study and liquor! Let me call my woman quick to let her know to bring home some Fosters from the market! 

This recent study talked to over 1,500 men and found that those that consumed alcohol more frequently actually experienced less erectile dysfunction. (Either that or they just imagined it after they got sloshed!) And scientifically there are some reasons why this might just work. First off, alcohol helps to digest food better, it helps to dilute fats and ease digestion. Really! Just ask the French! About 10 years back I started drinking red wine at my meals and I certainly HAVE noticed a general increase in ease of digestion. I know from personal experience that if my digestion is not working 100% then Mr. Happy is not going to be so HAPPY.

Dr. Manny Alvarez from Fox News commented on this study as well. I generally don’t agree with him on many things just like his take on this.

This study makes complete sense to me! Your thoughts?!?

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